…not only are you an asshole, you’re a multipurpose asshole.
Melissa is talking about all of us. I dunno. I was going to leave a comment on her site. I probably still should. It’s not nice to talk about people behind their backs. She’s talking about the asshole nature of being human, which sounds like a title that would make Milan Kundera go, “Hey… that’s pretty g… nah.”
I pretty much agree with her, if I am understanding her right. If what she says about asshole nature is what I think about when I think about our inescapable culpability in everything.
I was at a big conference this week, of a large, very large international organization dedicated to development aid. Where a very eloquent American gentleman spoke in a very critical tone of changing priorities, of how a billion people live on less than $2 a day, of how the the United States, for example, but other developed countries are not necessarily doing better in this regard, spends so and so much on “defense” and so and so much on development aid and the “war on poverty” and how the two figures are shamefully out of proportion.
I spend $15 a month for hosting for my blog empire. What some people spend to live for a week, or two weeks. So I’m culpable too, as are you.
And asshole nature, yes, I’m ashamed of things I have done, of other things I continue to do. Less so, the older I get, partly because I grow more shameless, partly because I grow less shameful, I hope.
All you can do is move towards the light.
everything but the last part. i gravitate toward a joseph conrad coda.
… and realize the unbearable lightness of being?
The linked post is first and foremost reeking of misanthropy. She’s polarized the vast human range of condition, emotion and actions into black-and-white or good vs evil terms. That’s ridiculous. She’s like upset that the gov’t has propagandized history, the bible has been inaccurately translated into English, and Santa Claus doesn’t really live in the North Pole. (I’ve personally gotten over these things and found more important things to trivialize. The psychologist is also occasionally helpful.)
And it seems like the post isn’t even about people being multipurpose assholes but about her coming “to the unfortunate conclusion that [she]
misery bad. alcohol good.