Comments on: Visitation rights

By: marshmallow

marshmallow — Thu, 28 Dec 2006 09:46:24 +0000

i think the thought of my parents dying is too traumatic for me to think about. do you come to accept it as you grow older? just reading your post made me want to cry. i guess i still have some growing up to do.

By: Erin

Erin — Thu, 28 Dec 2006 04:17:41 +0000

I’ve felt my father’s ghost, but not seen him. He comes to me in dreams a fair amount, and we have conversations. It’s nice, but also distressing when I wake up and remember he’s gone.

By: Guanaco

Guanaco — Wed, 27 Dec 2006 20:45:05 +0000

Nice post.

I saw my Dad’s ghost just once at my son’s birth. I think I was finally letting go…

By: deb

deb — Wed, 27 Dec 2006 19:09:00 +0000

I’ve seen my father’s ghost on two separate occasions and one time he seemed to be “lost”, too, Mig. I fretted about it for weeks on end but finally decided that it had more to do with me being lost than him…I still wish he’d spoken to me.

Indeed, I’m certain that you father did and does still love you very much :)

By: wildsoda

wildsoda — Wed, 27 Dec 2006 18:53:01 +0000

I wish I could say I’ve seen his ghost — I’ve seen him only in a dream every few months — but sometimes I’ve felt like he was around, and that he would be saying something pretty much like that.